Sexual preference towards the same sex, or in other word homosexual, has become quite the controversial subject over the last decade or so. As more and more people are becoming open about their sexuality it is thus contributing to the massive up rise against the gay community. Ones sexuality has become as controversial as abortion. While we may ponder how this has become such a hot topic we need not look too far to find pure evidence of this unsettling truth, as we can see the pure hatred that is put forth onto the gay community. As I pursued threw massive amounts of articles written about sexuality I came across one that was quite upsetting. The story was about a 15 year old boy who killed himself due to the immense bulling he suffered at school, due to his sexual preference. It was startling to me that a boy of only 15 would be tormented to the point of death just because he was a little different than everyone else. Which thus evokes the question why our society has an immense hatred towards the gay community? We also may question to what degree is this social problem amongst our community and to what extend is it negatively affecting our society?
As we begin to explore how sexual preference has become such a vast social problem we must understand fully what being gay really means to be homosexual. Homosexuality is defined as “of, relating to, or characterized by a tendency to direct sexual desire toward another of the same sex” (Homosexual). We can see a large movement against gay rights much like the movement against black rights as well as women’s rights. Hence we can understand how homosexuality and the acceptance of gays in our society is a social problem. We can see to a vast degree that the masses of our society are disillusioned by the gay movement.
While the internet is filled with loads of information on why it is not right to be gay or why gay people should not be allowed to get married we can understand how an issue such as gay rights would be a social problem. I came across one sight that was quite alarming it was a Christian site and the article was titled “10 reason Why Being Gay is Wrong” (Sarah). The article stated “allowing gay marriage would cause more people to want to be gay…. Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior…People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage contract” (Sarah). What we can establish here is that the counter argument against gay marriage is quite harsh and unrealistic. The claim that is we allow gay couples to become legally married will thusly cause a rise in human in pet marriages is not only not likely but also foolish.
Social implications of such rhetoric portrayed above cause countless problems. One primary social problem is the hatred of gays which consequently causes them to act on their emotions, actions such as seen in the news article about the young boy who took his life due to bulling. There is a common understanding that being gay is a controversial issue seeing we see it in the news all the time while the question of what causes this hatred towards the gay community remains. It may be due to a lack of knowledge, of understanding, or the fear of the unknown. While some may support feelings due to religious beliefs or political views the question still remains to why one would presume these hatful views are just. As it is clear that the hatred towards gays causes many problems in society the general understanding of where all this hatred comes from and why is still up for debate.
Works Cited
"Homosexual - Definition and More from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary." Dictionary and Thesaurus - Merriam-Webster Online. Web. 18 Oct. 2011. <http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/homosexual>.
"Jamie Hubley, 15, Commits Suicide After Bullying." Advocate News. 17 Oct. 2011. Web. 18 Oct. 2011. <http://news.advocate.com/post/11580677515/jamie-hubley-15-commits-suicide-after-bullying>.
Sarah. "10 Reasons Why Being Gay Is WRONG!!! - Debating Mums! - Circle of Moms." Circle of Moms - Online Mom Groups, Mom Blogs, and Parenting Resources around Motherhood, New Moms, Pregnancy, Babies, Toddlers, Parenthood, and More - Circle of Moms. 02 Mar. 2010. Web. 18 Oct. 2011. <http://www.circleofmoms.com/debating-mums/10-reasons-why-being-gay-is-wrong-495045>.